I don't dabble in reality TV much aside from Extreme Makeover-Home Edition (one of N's indulgences) and The Amazing Race. Oh, and The Biggest Loser, which I watch all the while wanting a bag of Doritos and vat of sour cream to dip them in. I usually flip to the Food Network or TLC as a white noise back-up channel hoping to strike Ina or What Not to Wear. Or Jon&Kate+8. All this talk about marriage trouble piqued my interest and I tuned in to their episode this evening alongside N as we transitioned M to bed.
WT_?!
I can't stand them. I hoped they would call the show quits or take some kind of sabbatical, but....
N: Where is the talk about God and love? And remember when they went to church?
N: What's with his earrings?
(scenes from Season 1 flash by)
N: Do you see that? She used to be like a mom and now she's a diva. She loves the camera.
We missed the first 15 minutes or so (busy w/M) but I put it back on again during its encore presentation to fill in any gaps - 10pm our time. I pointed out all these catty things Kate said about Jon as N had originally placed all the blame on Jon for wimping out of his marriage. N still maintains that Jon is a wimp.
N is not a wimp. We have had so many hiccoughs along the way and I even went through a silent phase last week (I tend to stop talking/shut down when disgruntled) only for me to communicate them via email yesterday. N usually addresses my 'concerns' within the day and we then move on. I don't even realize that I am bottling until N brings it to my attention, so kudos to him for manning up to our issues and uncorking my effervescence. Every now and then I wonder if he will reach his capacity, but he hasn't yet and assures me this is how our relationship 'works'.
It sounds terrible that we resolve our differences via email, but that seems to work for me and I can't talk things out in real time b/c I get overwhelmed with N's questions to the extent that I feel like I'm being attacked. N's very persistent and can argue for the sake of arguing. Me, not so much. I just clam up. So email works for me -> us.
And WT_ with all the "my kids" or "for me" or "I" business?
WT_?!
On a lighter note, I caved and got a Gap CCard. I buy 92% of N & M's clothing at GapInc. that I probably should have done it a long time ago. Since I started my 1-for-1, I did pick up a few long-wanted items -- 2 new sports bras to replace the ones pre-M and a pair of my favorite jeans in a smaller size b/c I either got smaller or the jeans stretched beyond wearable status.
The shopping since our move is a bit out of control, but 'needs' to be done since I START WORK next week. Need to sign and mail in my contract....